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Dec 15

Five things

Given my low participation in cross-site linking, XFN and memes in general, there was only a slim chance I would be tagged for the current ‘five things’ meme by anyone else. And so, in an act of onanism I have tagged myself.

Five things you might not know about me.

  1. As a child I was a reluctant Coventry City supporter. I grew up in Coventry, but generally speaking had very little interest in the football club. Even after, in 1987, we achieved our (still) greatest success by beating Tottenham Hotspur 3-2 to win the FA Cup, I remained an apathetic kid with only a passing interest in the club. I once even sang about “Coventry Shitty”. I can't quite remember why.

    Then in 1989 my dad contracted lymphatic cancer. My dad was a seasoned Coventry City fan. He went to Wembley for that legendary FA Cup final, having camped on the old Spion Kop (at the now demolished Highfield Road stadium; the Kop itself having previously made way for an all-seater stand) overnight in his sleeping bag and a bivouac to ensure he could get a ticket. This, to me, was even more hardcore and committed than queuing up outside HMV on Oxford Street for a Nintendo Wii! For Christmas in 1989, my mum bought my dad something he doubtless had wanted for many years: a season ticket for Coventry City's 1989/1990 season.

    Sadly, my dad fell further ill and on Valentine's Day 1990 he died. My mother, I can only imagine hoping I would take up the mantle, gave me his season ticket and for the next six years I went to Coventry City's home games. At first I was still just a reluctant young lad of 10 who wanted nothing more than to escape the world, drawing his coat over his head and not paying one jot of attention to the matches. But in time, things changed. I found myself drawn into discussions of the atrocious refereeing or lack of midfield control with my dad's best friend Ray and his son Colin, who I went along with. It wasn't long before I was truly a supporter of the club, something which I am proud to still be to this day.

  2. At the age of about 14, I saw an advert for a Lego model-building competition in a newspaper on a saturday morning and rushed into town with a model I'd made some months earlier (some sort of Technic Lego bipedal robot; probably Robocop-inspired), on the off-chance that it might do well. It won second prize.
  3. Another Coventry City story (sorry); my 8th birthday (less than 3 months after Coventry City won the FA Cup) happened to coincide with the 1987 Charity Shield match. I, along with my dad and a number of his friends, went to Wembley for the match as a birthday treat.

    About 20 minutes into the game, I stood up on my chair to get a better view, but being a flip-back chair it promptly folded up and agonisingly pincered shut on my leg. In severe pain, I was wheelchaired off to receive medical treatment, but as the medics were informed it was my birthday this took place in the official players' treatment room inside Wembley Stadium, having taken a detour via the changing rooms.

    I missed virtually the entire remainder of the game, however, which Coventry City lost 1-0.

  4. I was, until the age of about 15, a member of the Woodcraft Folk, and would go back to my school every Wednesday evening to attend our meetings. My overriding memories of these meet-ups were trips to the corner shop to buy fizzy drinks and sweets, and writing letters to the leaders of authoritarian foreign governments to protest the imprisonment of various political prisoners, on behalf of Amnesty International. I always hated writing those letters, but I think it sowed a seed of activism in me which occasionally sprouts into action when an issue strikes close to my heart.
  5. I am not particularly keen on the concept of hero-worship or idolatry, but having been profoundly influenced in my professional career by his writings, I was determined to meet Jeffrey Zeldman when he spoke at @media 2005. Having shaken his hand and thanked him for his contribution to what I do for a living, his response was to simply smile and softly reply “Thank you.”

And so the baton of insidious viral memeness must be passed on. For this task I elect the following individuals: